Why this blog...

I am the mother of the three most talented, intelligent and beautiful children ever to live on this earth. I am also privileged to be married to the most wonderful man! He has added three additional talented, intelligent and beautiful children to our family! I have a job that I mostly love, a wonderful education, a beautiful home, marvelous family, and I have the privilege of belonging to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. I have been greatly blessed in my life, but I sometimes forget that. So, I decided to create this blog as a way to remind myself of all the many blessings and miracles that surround me. (I'm also terrible at keeping a journal- so this will be something for my kids to enjoy as well.)

I hope you enjoy what you read. I would love to hear what you think!

Deanne

Sunday, July 23, 2017

One of the Best Perks of Marrying my Husband?

His Parents!


I met them after Luke and my 2nd date... he didn't have transport and needed a ride 'home' (his parents' home at the time.) They came in as we pulled up. They were both just wonderful to me from the start!

In fact, they both hoped Luke would marry me before he had made up his mind! Luke's dad was kind enough to refer to me as 'gold' and others Luke was talking with as 'silver'. - very sweet, I thought!

Anson and Dee are the perfect in laws for me! They are kind, loving, and always there to support both Luke and I in whatever way needed.

I am so very blessed to have great in-laws!






Friday, June 30, 2017

A Father for Our Children


I came across this note today. What an appropriate note for Luke to receive from one of his young children!

Luke never does ask for an object... he always sincerely wants the gift of his kids living right, being happy and doing good for others! That is what truly makes him happy.

This Father's Day, one of our daughters expressed her love and appreciation for the father that Luke has been and will always be in a particularly touching way. 

She was telling Luke what a good father he is and Luke, in his usual humble way told her he would always try (which, of course, he will.) Well, she told him that he can certainly keep trying. However, she knows he is a GREAT dad now!!!

Luke was very touched!

And I agree! I am so blessed to have such a wonderful father for our children! 

Tuesday, May 30, 2017

The Mirror of Others
















(Please excuse the picture quality...) So which is me, and which is the 'mirror'? 

There was once a study that concluded that people prefer the way they look in a reversed image better than a normal (non-reversed) image... the theory is that we see ourselves in the mirror so often that a reversed image is 'normal' for ourselves. This is true for me in these images. Even though I know which is normal and which is reversed, and I know they are the SAME picture, I prefer the reversed image of myself! Strange!

Makes me think about how we 'see' ourselves as people.

The past few years, someone close to me has seemed to view me in a very negative fashion. Although I know their view is completely skewed, I still stop and question myself quite often, especially these last few months- and it is NOT a good thing at all!

Then I remembered an experience I had a few months back. I was attending a writing conference as part of my school assignments (I know, right?! What a great school to 'require' me to attend a writer's conference! But, I digress.) I happened to sit by a former high school classmate who was also attending the conference. I remember this classmate as being a nice young man but that was about all I remembered...

 He told me that he wanted to thank me! He went on to say that he had just been talking to an acquaintance about me the week before, about what a wonderful example of honesty I am... (wow! and what?) He told me that back in high school, when I overheard him talking about his intentions to cheat on a test, I had told him that he was better than that! I had told him not to cheat. (yeah, I would say that.)

What amazed me was that he had not only remembered that conversation, but he had then continued to 'reflect' such a positive 'picture' of me as a person to the world so MANY years later!

It makes me a little more aware of how I wish others to reflect me. More importantly, though, how do I reflect others? Do I pick out the good qualities and reflect those by how I treat them and how I talk about them to others? Or do I merely reflect the negative?

And how do I want my children and grandchildren to be viewed in the mirror of others, especially my own?


Sunday, May 14, 2017

Magnificent Mothers For Our Grands!

Love you Cassie and Charly (and of course, all of the rest too)!!!



Luke and I are so blessed to be grandparents to your children!

We hope you had a fabulous day! (and we really need to take more pictures of all of the kids...)

Sunday, April 30, 2017

Grands are, well, GRAND!!!

Last month we welcomed our 4th Grand...

And she is so beautiful! Just like all the rest!

Then the playing began...






















I miss them already!!! I am so blessed!


Sunday, March 5, 2017

Missing the Beard!


When Luke was unable to work and needed to cut back on daily energy use (think shaving every day), he talked to me about growing a beard... my first thought was, "uhmmm..."- I was imagining long beard and bushy- not my idea of a good thing.
Then he grew it, and kept it trimmed short (3-4 week trim). Love it!!!


Now in an attempt to spend even less energy, he tried the shave it off and let it grow approach... :(

I miss the beard! Never thought I would back when, but I miss the beard!

Glad it will be back!

Sunday, February 12, 2017

I Have THE BEST sister!

I really do! Just look at her!


Not only is she BEAUTIFUL on theoutside- she is absolutely STUNNING on the inside!

She is always doing something for others. Whenever I stop by her home, she is either out doing something great for neighbors and friends or she is busy baking something delicious for friends and family.


I am so blessed to have such a sister!