Why this blog...

I am the mother of the three most talented, intelligent and beautiful children ever to live on this earth. I am also privileged to be married to the most wonderful man! He has added three additional talented, intelligent and beautiful children to our family! I have a job that I mostly love, a wonderful education, a beautiful home, marvelous family, and I have the privilege of belonging to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. I have been greatly blessed in my life, but I sometimes forget that. So, I decided to create this blog as a way to remind myself of all the many blessings and miracles that surround me. (I'm also terrible at keeping a journal- so this will be something for my kids to enjoy as well.)

I hope you enjoy what you read. I would love to hear what you think!

Deanne

Sunday, September 28, 2014

Little Things are What Count

There is so much in life to make me smile!

And they are the little things that are truly the best!


Like these baby ghillies! They are the MOST adorable present for my second grand- daughter! Plus the love and thoughtfulness of Charly's friend  in making them = a most priceless gift!


Hard to wait to meet the little girl... but so grateful that Charly is doing well!



And spending time with some of my nieces is ALWAYS a treat!


Seeing this pic of my first grand-daughter- there are not adequate words to describe the wonder of that smile!

There are so many big challenges and hard things in this world of ours. I am so glad to be surrounded by so many little blessings that count so much!


Sunday, September 21, 2014

My Forever 'Yes!'

Tomorrow will be 2 years since Luke took me here:


asked me THE question, to which I said 'yes!'... which meant this:


Marriage is so good! Now please do not think that all of my challenges magically disappeared on that day. Quite the contrary, in fact. Many things and circumstances became even harder... The Lord has told us that life is meant to be that way. We will always have challenges. We need them to help us grow and progress towards who we are to become. (and no, knowing this does not make it any easier.)

But having Luke in my life, caring about me, so often saying just the right thing at just the right time, thinking of me ahead of himself, blowing me a kiss as he leaves the room (like just now!)... all of that makes all of the other so very much worth it because I am sealed to this man for time and ALL ETERNITY as we both live up to the covenants we have made!


It was, still is and will always be a FOREVER kind of "yes!"

Sunday, September 14, 2014

There Are Good People in this World!

Here is a letter from Richard Paul Evans that is well worth your time to read, think about, and maybe even act upon...

A Candid Letter to My Readers.
Dear Reader,
I'd like to speak candidly with you. Many of my readers have told me that the Michael Vey series isn't their "thing". I've even had readers ask why I would "waste" my time with a youth series. Indeed. I actually get paid much less to write this series than my adult novels. So why should you, or I, care about my Michael Vey series? Please give me just a moment of your precious time to tell you why, on a deeper level, this series matters.
Michael Vey is one of the best-selling Young Adult series in the world right now, one of the few series to hit #1 on the New York Times without a movie and multi-million dollar promotional budget behind it. Yet many of America's publishers didn't think Michael Vey would even sell one percent of what it already has and rejected it. Why? The answers to this question should concern you.
First, Michael Vey didn't look like the darkness the publishing world has been feeding our children–youth who hate or disregard their parents and disdain society, as if our youth needed more dysfunctional life scripts. Michael Vey is a "good" kid. What does that mean? Well, to begin with, he is loyal, kind and he loves his parents. He is humble. In today's world of swagger, he's an oddity. Second, The Michael Vey series is hopeful. It is not dystopian, it is not occult. It is scary sometimes and exciting, but Michael Vey believes in the best of humanity, that we can be good and that some things are worth fighting for, even if we don't personally profit from the results. In short, he's a hero. Third, Michael Vey appeals to youth with disabilities. (If you didn't know, Michael Vey has Tourette's syndrome.) Last week we had nearly 3,000 youth attend our Michael Vey launch party. One volunteer estimated that a fourth of those youth had disabilities. I personally spoke to six youth with autism. All of them expressed their gratitude for Michael Vey. Why? Because they see someone like them who is defined not by his "disabilities" but by his choices. By his heart. One woman told me that it was Michael Vey who got her child to go out in public again.
One more peculiar thing. I have personally come under attack for having a male hero. Imagine that. Think about it, the most recent major series have all been female protagonists: Hunger Games, Divergent, Twilight. Female heroes are important. It's important that our girls have strong role models and, as a father of four daughters, I understand this. Michael Vey has some very strong female heroes, especially Taylor, who Michael often goes to for counsel. But I also have a son and I know that we can't "overcorrect" and neglect our boys. Our boys, our grandsons, still need a hero and role model, even a literary one. Our boys are dropping out of school, and life, at an alarming rate. Many have stopped reading and the stereotype of the "reluctant male reader" has become a frightening and ubiquitous trend. We need to reach our boys. The most frequent comment we receive is this: "You got my boy to read again."
When the movie of my book, THE CHRISTMAS BOX, was about to be released, I was contacted by the publicity department of an international church seeking to help promote my book. When I asked why they would help, the man replied, "If a book this big fails in Hollywood, Hollywood will use it as a clear example to stop making inspirational movies and proof that only trash sells. I'm pleased to say that The Christmas Box went on to be the most watched television movie of the year in America with viewers in the tens of millions, prompting the production of many more inspirational films.
So even if you don't think Michael Vey is for you, the cause may be. I invite you to join the cause, because this is one where we can make a difference shaping culture. Introduce Michael Vey to your children, your grandchildren, to a neighbor. Purchase a copy or two and donate it to your school or church. Many schools have library waiting lists for Michael Vey numbering in the hundreds. (Trust me, if you're 300 on the waiting list, you're not going to get to read it.)
Michael Vey will be a seven book series. The Fourth book in the series, Hunt for Jade Dragon, comes out this Tuesday. The first book in the series is Michael Vey: The Prisoner of Cell 25. Here's a complete list of the books.
Michael Vey 1: The Prisoner of Cell 25
Michael Vey 2: Rise of the Elgen
Michael Vey 3: Battle of the Ampere
and, the new book, Michael Vey 4: Hunt for Jade Dragon (Jade Dragon is the name of an autistic Chinese girl)

Thank you and God Bless,
Richard

         Michael Vey 4: Hunt for Jade Dragon


I think I need to have some copies available to my students...

I am so grateful for good people in this world!

Sunday, September 7, 2014

It Depends on Your Angle...

This life can be very difficult and challenging in so very many ways!

But it is also beautiful and wonderful too! And in more ways than I can personally count.

It all depends on the angle.

For example, my math class is usually a place where it is hard to find smiles. My students are in my class because math is the most challenging subject for them (or close to it). So, they see the hard quite often.

But this week, I had a student look at my class from a different 'angle'. When others groaned while getting out the whiteboards, he said, 'I love whiteboards!' When others complained about working with a group, he declared, 'I love working in a group!' When others rolled their eyes at completing an online game, he kept repeating, 'I love math on a computer!'

My favorite quote from him this week? "This is a fun math class!" And best of all, he really meant it!

So I need to remember that when life is challenging to change my view's angle- then I can say, 'I love ____________!' And mean it too!

Sunday, August 31, 2014

Things that were august in August

This has by far been the most difficult start to a school year for me... so I thought I should focus on things that have been august in my life, seeing as how it is August after all!

august: inspiring reverence or admiration; of supreme dignity or grandeur; majestic



Claire:


So much to admire about this little beauty and her parents!

Luke and I were able to attend her blessing with many of our family. And Cassie was so wonderful to allow us grandparents (Luke and I ) to hold Claire for the ENTIRE meeting afterwards! (Luke and I were unable to attend the gathering after the meeting- so this was our only chance to spend time with Claire.) Claire was awake the whole time and was captivating. This grandmother ABSOLUTELY LOVED watching Grandpa Luke holding this precious child, playing with her arms and legs, and just plain being enamored of his granddaughter! 


Luke: 

He continues to be such a blessing in my life! He is always saying or doing just the right thing at the right moment... He truly cares for me and loves me!

Projects:

It is not so much the projects themselves that I find august- it is what they do for my state of mind and attitude that captures my admiration...

Working on a project calms me down, focuses my mind... finishing a project brings great satisfaction! 
Katy and Jeremy's blanket and pillowcases

Next jean quilt all laid out...

If all goes well, this will look great with my new sofa!
And it was free! Plus, there is nothing quite so relaxing
as removing furniture staples and tearing something apart!

Five batches of plum jelly- YUM!!!
So many good things in my life!



Sunday, August 10, 2014

Happy Birthday Daddy!

Today is the birthday of one of the greatest men I have ever known, my dad!


He has always been such an example in my life. He is loving and kind, generous and caring, firm in his faith and testimony of the Lord, Jesus Christ.

When I was very young, my dad spent several summers in California (we were living in Minnesota at the time) in order to earn his master's degree. I don't remember much of that time myself, but I did learn the importance of an education through his example.

I also remember watching my dad work on our home in Eagan, Minnesota. He learned to do many tasks himself, including laying tile in order to make our home so much better on a budget they could afford... I guess I have tried to emulate this many times in my own life thanks to my dad's example.

My dad is a great example of loving others, especially family, even when you do not necessarily approve of their actions or agree with their point of view. He will always have a listening ear for whomever comes to him with a problem.

My dad has been my inspiration for doing family history work. I love so much to hear him tell of his childhood- all of the memories of our family. Now every time I 'find' a new name of a relative or make a new connection, I cannot wait to tell my dad.

My dad even helped me by taking on part of the role of 'dad' to my own children through all of the years that I was single. He was and is such an excellent example of what a man of God should do and should be.

I love you, daddy! Happy birthday!

Sunday, August 3, 2014

A Few of my Favorite July Things...

I am glad it is August! Luke's health has been on a roller coaster this last month, from great, doing well, to awful, doing so poorly!

It's hard to watch his discouragement and to feel so helpless about it all. I'm afraid I haven't been the most upbeat person to be around... which doesn't exactly help anyone.

Switch to my beautiful niece, Alyssa-
she is pregnant right now and has a rare complication that means she hasn't been able to eat anything for months. The doctors tried so many things to help, including several attempts at temporary feeding tubes. Nothing worked well enough- so now Alyssa has a permanent feeding tube- no fun at all! And she still has such a hard time- and isn't even due until December! To make it even worse, she also has at least one kidney stone...

But she is such an example to me! Here is her FB post today (and she means every word!):

"'Happiness is a choice only you can make' I love this quote. Specially today when I feel so sick it's so important to remember that you get to choose no matter what your trial is if you will be happy or not. Choose happiness and you will find good things in every situation!"

So I thought I should follow this great example by making a short list of some favorite July things that make me happy: (in no particular order...)

1) Luke- it makes my heart sing when he prays and refers to our marriage as something 'precious' to him. I know he truly loves the Lord and loves me.

2) My MIL (and FIL)- they are THE BEST!!! they are always so kind to me and so giving to all of those around.

3) Most wonderful 1st grandchild! With the best parents!




4) My little girl dancing!


5) my bishop- (speaking over the podium during sacrament meeting and everything!) He had been talking about the importance of 4 minutes. Then he switched to speaking to husbands about the importance of their wives and showing love- he ended up telling all of the husbands to go home, sit on the couch next to their wife, and then to kiss her- yes, for 4 minutes! Fun bishop!!! And great thought too! 

6) New addition to our home: 


Although I did not get to practice my re-upholstery skills on this (yet), it is so beautiful! And brings a smile to my face just looking at it... Plus Josh had somewhere to sit when he came by this week.

7) My Father-in-Heaven- He is always there for me! I feel his presence when I am able to attend the temple, and I feel His influence as I 'suddenly find' people as I am doing family history work... He is the ultimate happy thought!